NL (English below): Het gebeurt zo vaak… Irritaties, soms zelfs onbewust gevormd. En vele hebben geen idee, dat dit niets over de ander zegt De eerste stap is hiervan bewust worden. Bewust van het feit dat zo’n irritatie meer zegt over onszelf, dan over de ander. Dat ze als een spiegel zijn en waardevol is omdat het ons iets leert, en ons een beter begrip van onszelf geeft. Dus bij de volgende keer als jij je aan iets of iemand irriteert, denk dat aan deze wijze woorden van (o.a.) Jung en vraag aan jezelf: wat zegt dit (over) mij? — English: It happens so often... Irritations, sometimes even formed unconsciously. And many have no idea, that this says nothing about the other person. The first step is to become aware of this. Aware that such irritations say more about ourselves, than about the other person. That they are like a mirror and even valuable because it teaches us something, and gives us a better understanding of ourselves. So the next time you are irritated by something or someone, remember these wise words of (among others) Jung and ask yourself: what does this say (about) me? #pattyspsyche #psyche #psychologie #filosofie #wijsheid #quote #carlgustavjung #irritatiefactortje #self #understanding #motivatie #spiegel #bewustzijnsontwikkeling #consciousnesscreatesreality #consciousness #bewustzijn

"Als mensen het te goed hebben beginnen ze altijd te verlangen naar iets nieuws" - Jacob Grimm. We wensen iets, werken ernaar toe, genieten er even van. Maar dan opnieuw verlangen we naar iets nieuws. Het is de cyclus nooit genoegen. Maar als een paradox ook die van groei. Zodra wij ons voor een tijdje goed voelen, is er een wens voor iets nieuws. Een vernieuwende situatie, een nieuwe gebeurtenis. Blijven we te lang hangen in dat wat we eerst zo graag wouden, worden we ongelukkig. ---- Ga stralen als de zon en wordt bewust van de onbewust (remmende) processen, en vindt je ware zelf. Kijk voor het aanbod in de link in mijn profiel -- English: We desire something, work toward it, enjoy it for a while. But then again we desire something new. It is the cycle of never satisfied. But as a paradox, it is also the cycle of growth. As soon as we feel good for a while, there is a desire for something new. A renewing situation, a new event. If we stay too long in what we first wanted so much, we become unhappy. ---- Start shining like the sun and become aware of unconscious (inhibiting) processes, and find your true self. Look for the ways to fly with me at link in my profile #Mentalhealth #consciousness #positivevibes #quotes #fairytales #jacobgrimm #psychologie #psyche #motivation #wisdomquotes #wisdom #bewustzijnsontwikkeling #groei #mindsetshift #mindset

𝐈𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞, 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐲 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐲𝐰𝐚𝐲? 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨 𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐡 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞. Simple as that... Perfectly logical right? But too often we still get stuck in that dark forest. It's scary there... Kill and cold But we know the forest. It's familiar. So we don't take the steps fully. Once in a while we are almost there. The open field is then already insight! But still the last small step remains out! And we return to the old familiar forest. It takes perseverance and courage. If you are really ready and become aware of the unconscious factors that keep you from standing in that beautiful field with the most beautiful and colorful flowers! I know you can do it! #psychology #change #transformation #courage #psyche #consciousness #takethesteps

To the basis of evil: Now you may be thinking. This quote, it's nonsense! But this quote has to do with judging, telling the other person's story. Let me explain. Because we look outside ourselves-superficially at the other person's story-we don't have to look at ourselves. (although the over-judging other often serves as an over the mirror to ourselves as well). There is also no time for focusing on ourselves, our shadows and imbalance. Our own story is relegated to the unconscious and we tell the story of the other. A story that does not rhyme with our own, out of lack of empathy. This is the basis of harm. A good question to ask yourself here is: do I know my story? Am I conscious of it, or is it tucked away in the unconscious? Once you know your own story, judgment will quickly disappear, empathy will arise and understanding will take its place. side-note: an opinion is substantially different from a judgment!

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐈 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐧 𝐛𝐲 𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐮𝐧! When another person is having a good laugh, you often have to laugh yourself. When another person yawns, chances are you have to yawn too. If what you are looking at is sad, you feel it! When you empathize with the fairy tale, you feel like the main character. Your radiance is contagious, like the moon reflects the sun’s light! The moon attracts it so that it seems to shine its own light in the dark! As contagious and attractive as it is, go shine your own light, and don’t just snatch it from someone else! Become aware and wonder at the light of the sun, but go shine like the biggest star in our universe by being your “self”! Make the unconscious, conscious! #Psyche #consciousness #wonder #shinelikethesun